Blog #116: Why so Inconsiderate?

You know, the best thing you can do to someone is tell them the truth. Lying to anyone is horrible, especially when you are wasting the other person's life. If you no longer love someone, tell them. What are you afraid of? If you wait an eternity before telling them, that's when they're going to hate you most. It's not a 'better late than never' type of deal. That's bullshit. You know, a lot of quotes that people share on Facebook, a lot of them are not cool and are not intelligent. Don't like base your life on that shit and like yeah the internet is only good for spreading ideas, but for real, one needs a good mind before going on the internet and being flooded with so much information. Use your brain, be skeptical and for God's sake don't fuck people over for your damn pride. Be nice!

Facebook Is Advocating Rape

So, this post of mine was pretty popular recently about International Grab a Boob Day. You want to see depraved pictures and sayings over a common social website, here it is!

https://www.facebook.com/events/537926283010134/537927393010023/

I've written to Facebook numerous times in order delete this stupidity, I'd written to the host Zindzi (while it disgusts me that the hosts are women) and I've got nothing in return. So, I guess I'm here to denounce the disgustingness of the nonchlance of these assholes working for Facebook and the women hosting this. Just to show you how nasty some of the comments are, I'm going to post a few right here. I'm sorry in advance.

I'm not sorry that I didn't respect confidentiality because Facebook is openfuckingsource so suck it. It's just disgusting I can't believe the things I'm hearing. The main problem is not the boob-grabbing as being a sinful (haha) thing, but it being done to people and it should be okay because of this 'holiday'. The Natty-Kiko one made me puke in my mouth a little bit, if a guy told me that I would block him and rock myself in a corner for a little while. Ugh. Strangers in stranger situations do crazy things to other strangers. Mob mentality! Hello!

If you want to help me do something, let's flood the page with being disgusted and tell of the Facebook people. Cool, okay, let's go! 

Blog #114--Babycenter.com's forum is Stupid--

So I've been lurking Babycenter.com because mom forums are slightly interesting, mostly horrible, but this one... BOYYYY do I want to fucking tear up some perineums! If you're a FTM, I wouldn't do this with my LO because he's EBF and my DH is not helping but sorry for this GOAT I don't want to be a FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU THINGS HAVE WORDS for a REASON HELOOO and the worst part? A woman started a thread ok, about the STUPID abbreviations and the women on the site were gaggling like fucking geese like aahaha they're obvious, you're the one who's stupid. Seriously! They have to fucking have this page

http://www.babycenter.com/community-help-abbreviations

And they say: they're so easy to use! Yay! WOW! FUCKING LOOK AT MY WITTINESS!

Ok ok sorry there, I'm ranting, but MAN it's frustrating when you just want to look up why your baby sucks in his sleep and you get fucking MANDARIN symbols and shit. Fuck it. Fuck the website.

Peace off, peaches. 

Blog #113--Pain--

I just want to say: emotional pain is probably a MILLION times more harmful than physical pain. I know. The worst physical pain is horrible, but it passes. Emotional pain does not seem like much at first, but it festers and does not pass unless one is super in contact with what exactly caused them pain at first. I went through the top #1 physical pain recently. It lasted hours, and I was panicked at first, and then it was over and I was rushed with endorphins as I held my baby boy in my arms. I cried because I was glad, not because I had gone through intense physical pain. A nurse even told me: wasn't that traumatic? I looked at her like what? I had no pain killers. I did it like all the other women did it before that horrid epidural was created. (I did beg for it, but I told my mother that she was going to have to be Harry Potter and me Dumbledore and that even if I beg for it, she would have me not take it.) It wasn't traumatic, being called ugly when I was fifteen was traumatic. I would rather give birth everyday if it meant I could stop adults from beating their kids into being bullies. Like, put the bottle down and take this spliff. Calm down. It's all right. There's so much worse in the world than your boss, than your budget, than what others think of you. Just breathe, and let the wind caress you. Sometimes, we feel like we have all these enemies, but our worst enemy is often ourselves. Be kind to yourself. Don't drown your liver. Blaze your soul! Fungus up your loins! And dance! Dance to the rhythm of the music of your heart!