Blog#112--International Grab a Boob Day, and I'm Serious--

https://www.facebook.com/events/537926283010134/?ref_newsfeed_story_type=regular

This is an event page that you might have seen might have not seen. I don't give a fuck what it is and what it's suppose to represent, but this is flat-out sexual harassement. They can disclose whatever they want, but I'm sorry this is not going to happen under any circumstance. Thanks, INTERNATIONAL grab a boob day. Now, not only can men rape women all the want in certain countries, they have a celebratory holiday to please their fingers upon some breasts.

First of all: Breasts are NOT erotic objects for everyone. A lot of women actually have horrible associated feelings having to do with molestation. What is it now, something like 60% of women are sexually abused at sometime in their lives? This may or may not have been breast-related. Think about that.

Second of all: Breasts hurt when they're being squeezed by stupid men who don't understand breasts, which is very likely most of them. Only women or doctors of the breast know how to touch a breast.

Third: This is just putting pressure on girls to find it all right to have this part of their body molested. Girl, I don't care if you WANT to have your breasts fondled, the point is that those guys are being reinforced in their stupid patriarchal views that women are objects. He doesn't care about you, about what you love and what you create, he just wants to place his fingers around the fat of your chest and squeeze.

Please, world, please don't fucking do this again. It's terrible. Thanks.

Blog #111--Critique: everydayfeminsm.com

 I'm sad this site exists. I'm sad because I see its worth and value, but it makes me sick to my stomach how much hand-holding some of these sites have. Are people really getting that stupid to not be able to critically make judgement and think by themselves what is right and wrong?

Blog #110--Beacause Nom: Fast Crockpot 'Gumbo'

It's not real gumbo because there's no roux involved, which makes it easier for everyone and less oily. Here tis!

4 cups water (or 4 cups of chicken broth if you're not using cubes)
1 can of diced tomatoes with herbs (or without herbs)
2 cubes of chicken broth (or like said above) Do not use cubes if you already have a broth.
1 cup of okra, sliced
1 onion, chopped
1 green pepper, chopped
2 cloves garlic, chopped
3 cooked hot italian sausages (or mild :P), sliced, or diced
1 cup of cooked chicken (as you like it really)
1 can of corn
1 cup and a half of black beans, or one can (or more if you like)
1 cup of cooked parboiled rice
cajun spice, chili powder (as you like it)
hot pepper, minced, with seeds
 chopped cilantro/coriandre leaves (fresh)

Fry up a bit of the green pepper and add the garlic, hot pepper and sausages, until we get a nice golden mix. In the crockpot, add in everything (except the cilantro) and the fry mix. Cook on high for 2 hours. Done. Bam. Delish! Do not overcook as the okra will become soggy and nast. Add chopped cilantro as the end to the crockpot or to your bowl. I like the leaves more than the stems.

For a vegetarian version, I would add some red kidney beans or navy beans and use vegetable broth instead. 

Edit: You can make this in a pot instead of a crockpot, simply watch it after an hour on low. We want to simmer it but it'll cook a bit faster on the stove. Watch the okra. 

Enjoy y'all Southern Cuisine a la Quebecoise! xoxox

Blog #109--News Recently about Sexual Violence/Freedom--

I know I wrote a blog about bothersome news and this type of news is bothersome, but I think it really needs to happen.

Blog #108--List of great ASMRtists--

Hey ASMR community or people wondering what the hell I'm about to talk about. Really, I just want to give my favourite ASMRtists and point out some things about the techniques they use. For those who don't know about ASMR, read about it here. A lot of people don't really get ASMR but they can get relaxed from watching these types of videos. So, here is my list!

GentleWhispering

Her name is Maria. She's Russian, moved to America and she dedicates herself to making people feel good. She's the Empress of ASMR in my opinion. She's graceful, calm, and her recent videos use the top quality sound and cam (cam's not that important though imo). I recommend starting with her if you like her, you might not, that's all right!

Blog #107--Interesting Cultural Changes--

I remarked today that TV is going to die. It's declining due to pirating and Netflix.

Blog 106--We're all Poor--

Almost everyone I know is poor (in money). Poor and being abused by either members of their own family, degraded by members of their own family, and forced to pay ridiculous prices for food at the grocery store.

Blog 105--Living in Another World--

I live amongst a lot of atheists. Sometimes it's hard because they're so right. :P But who cares what proof we have and don't have? Sometimes we just want to live in a world that isn't our own. I think it's important to have a good cosmological perspective and have a thirst for knowledge, but the way to go about it isn't clear for anyone. A lot of people think I'm ridiculous because I study theology, and very close people to me have said: what are you going to do with that? or even... 'I think the theology branch should die.' Yes, indeed. Imagine that. Imagine... sometimes I wake in the morning to a dove-coloured sky and for a few moments, I am sure that outside my apartment, my room, is nothing. It is a white box filled with nothing but emptiness and utter silence. I don't like the idea, but for a few minutes, it is my reality and that reality fills me up and tells me something different than what I've always known. Why is this a bad thing? I've said a lot of things about religion, but I've studied a lot of religion, and I understand all the facets of being or not being religious. Religious people choose to be religious, and to follow another view of life that perhaps isn't real, isn't the truth. It doesn't matter. I don't blame a person for wanting to escape this world; I hate it, as you can tell from this blog. I hate my society, even though I'm safe in the streets... I'm still faced with bullshit every day, poverty, unfairness, cruelty, and everything that makes me hate reality. So, I write. Writing is really a part of me, and it makes me connect with the deep inviolate world that is in my head. Cruelty, brutality and all other things that in real life displease me I can control in my world, in my own reality. It's a bit like religion; you pick and choose what you want your reality to look like and there is nothing WRONG with that. Be a solipsist! Believe in God! Study ancient gods! But do it in a way that's personal and beautiful, and never impose it on others. We all need our own spaces. We all need our own time. Take your time. Enjoy your space.

oxxox Peace

Blog 104--Why Female Contraceptives Are Bad--

What are you talking about?? Contraceptives are amazing!!

Yes, for countries where rape exists 24|7 like in Congo.
For everywhere else where society is a bit more restraint of our animalistic urges, female contraception is actually pretty bad. I've written about this before, but those posts are old. I'm done my Bachelor's now and I'm heading into Sex and Religion and Theology studies. By in large, I will tell you my experience and what I know about contraceptions and you can tell for yourself and do your own research if you will.

Blog 103--Canadian and American School System Problems--

If you're a teacher, you can tell when kids are copying off each other. Those kids are not learning, they're 'cheating' or 'failing' at school. Those kids should be taught how to think and synthesize for themselves. I, for one, was one of the students who did not copy from people, but I would get ideas from novels I read from looking at the world (being mainly an introvert). I was sometimes accused of copying and I used to receive low grades for having my own ideas instead of adhering to the teacher. As I grew up, I learned that to get good grades, you had to do what teachers TOLD you to do. This is not learning. This is conditioning and this is horrible. This is a personal view but I think:

People who copy, people who cheat and don't care about being in school SHOULD FAIL.
Fuck them. It just makes more room in society for people who like to use their brains.

Blog 102--Hypocrisy--

Wherever you are, you're going to be faced with hypocrisy. It's a sad notion, but a true notion. Recently, person X has been telling me to behave a certain way while I'm at someone's else's place. This condition was about the music that I found horrendous and me keeping my comments to myself and let the host play they're music. This X person, at MY party, let's other people and his music play saying: be more open to other tastes.

Blog 101--Poisonous People and what to do about them--

There is this type of person who is REALLY detrimental and whom perhaps most people don't see at first as being a problem. First of all:

Blog 100--How Society Has Ruined my Life and How to Get Rid of Bullies--

Well, I'm going to be blunt about it, society, social behaviour and societal constructs have ruined my life up to now.

Grade and High School Bullying
What do they tell you? Go see the teacher. Went. Went to see Principal. Nothing happened. Bully still bullied. What do they call you? The teachers would call me a drama queen because kids would call me fat and ugly and I got hurt by them. ''You have nothing to be hurt about.'' Sure. So! I hated school. I loved home, thankfully!! Hated school and I never told my parents that I was heavily bullied because I didn't want them to worry. I admitted to my mom at the age of 21 (yesterday) what had happened. She was pissed, but I realized that it was the most altruistic thing I had ever done in my life.

Consequences
Broken fundamentals lead your life later on and I was angry at myself for being sad (like they blamed me for being) and I was sad because I was angry. Vicious cycle made me into a monster in High School until 2 wonderful people accepted me for being a monster... those people I love them with my entire heart not because they tried to be my friend, because they were. They saw that I was really just trapped and they lent me a hand. I started to write at this point. Without writing, I don't think I would be here today.

Later in my life, I realized that I was obsessed with being thin. I wasn't and now, I'm 21 and I can't eat because I'm afraid of being fat. I was never fat but so many people called me fat in the past, so I thought I was. I still think I am. So now I'm afraid of food. Fail.

Post#99--What is Religion to me--